"Sure. We need somebody to be our waterboy." That was the
texted message I received back from Jared after I had inquired about
joining his summer lacrosse team a season ago. Ten years earlier, when I
was Jared's high school JV coach, a similar derogatory comment would
have cost him about a thousand windsprints and possibly a choked
larynx. But now, Jared was a recent college All-American and the coach
of the Wilbraham Zebras lacrosse team. I was a 47 year old once-upon-a-time decent player, but now dependent upon a knee brace, ankle tape, and mega-doses of
Advil and Icy-Hot just to survive a few shifts per game.
Plus, for the first time in 30 years, I was a rookie.
After 28 seasons of playing summer lax with the Westfield Cranx
team, the need for a change in venue and the chance to play with a new
group of players became unavoidable. As great as the Cranx franchise
was, and as much as I loved playing with truly awesome guys and many lifelong
friends over the years, looking for a new playing experience was something
that simply became inevitable.
It'll be just like what Bruce Springsteen did,
I told myself. Just another little experience about my life I can compare to my
hero, I thought...besides the whole rockstar/millionaire/world famous thing, of course. When
Bruce went on the road for the 1993 Lucky Town/Human Touch tour, he did
so without the E Street Band. Instead, a new group of audition-picked
musicians took their place; Bruce's need for a fresh approach
fueled his decision making:
"You can get to a
place where you start to replay the ritual and nostalgia creeps in" he explained. "I
decided it was time to mix it up. I just had to cut it loose a little
bit so I could have something new to bring to the table."